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Musings on a half century marriage

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Ivanhoe Circle

You can’t live in a place for almost four decades and NOT have stories to tell.

Musings on a half century marriage

So … today is Chandler’s and my 50th wedding anniversary. We said “I Do” in our apartment, the minister who lived upstairs (with dubious...

I Cry

Every morning I cry. I am invariably the first person to wake up, and I have a routine I seldom break. Make coffee, sit in the...

Second Thoughts

In 2018 I published a memoir in which I castigated myself for being an enabler – and indeed I was and still am. Instead of putting my...

Jake's Journey

Tonight, I will be attending a graduation ceremony that will be like no other I have attended. Because of the pandemic, students will be...

The Power of Empathy

As a school counselor, it wasn’t unusual for me to sit face-to-face with a student (or parent, or teacher) who came to me complaining...

My Mother's Eyes

The month of May, for so many a reminder of life’s renewal after a bleak winter, will forever be bittersweet for me. It was May, 2008,...

Neighbors

When we moved into our home in Grand Prairie, Texas, 36 years ago, we fell in love with our neighborhood. Not only was it a quiet, shady...

OK Boomer

Having just turned 72, I fall into the earliest cusp of the Baby Boom generation, a huge group of Americans born during the two decades...

Validation

When I finished the first draft of my memoir Another Cheesy Family Newsletter, in February of 2018, I didn’t have the slightest idea how...

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